what goes around, always comes around

Seeing my friends throwing whines and their self-pitying statements of how their parents force them to follow the path the way their parents wanted, had me thinking for a while. Frankly speaking, I’m grateful enough to have both parents that don’t give a crap of what I am doing, in terms of deciding what I what want to do in life. And I know that is not because they don’t care, it’s because they do and they let me try. And if something does not work out for me , I learned the lesson myself, not by anyone telling me so. I guess it’s basically how I got the most of  out it in life until now.

I recall that very day when I decided to change the subject I really long study in college. And the decision fell to architecture subject. Soon after, I told my granny and my mother about it. It took me by surprise that was there to support what I had chosen, rather than growling on how on earth I would’ve changed my mind from being an internist to be an architect. And it’s the same thing when I got the chance to alter my major once again into graphic design that actually brought me to where I am right now.

And if you said my life has been way too easy for me, you’re almost right. But it’s not the case. There is always price to pay. I could not just go and say  what I want. I am fully-equipped with a one prefect mouth, so I use it to tell. I discuss. I explain. I compromise. And with the rest of what I have, I prove things I said and, goddamnit it always worked for me.

I know it’s just plain blunt to blame the parents out there that still forcing the kids of what they want to be. Of course, they do have all the reasons for that, so do we. And for you pals, remember: what you are dreaming of is what keeps you going. As long as you don’t mess around with your dream, you are just good to go.

I believe parents are both awesome adviser and discussing mate. But yet, they are not a driver that drive your life around the way they want it. Keep in faith that you can always compromise. And never give up, because the mere things they want to see is the conviction and proofs. Your life is at your own hands. What goes around, always comes around.

~stealing from another private source